SHARING IS CARING

 Hello dunia tipu tipu,

I dont know where does this dunia tipu tipu phrase came from, main guna je sebab nampak ramai dak2 twitter guna hahaha. Sejak jadi mommy ni banyak juga benda viral i missed. Atau mungkin sejak dah nak masuk 3 series ni dah malas nak cara banyak benda kot. Tapi blogging tetap blogging. I guess blogging ni pon dah menunjukkan kan yg i dah tua kan? Hahaha siapa je yg main blog sekarang? :p

Last few days ada ternampak satu posting from indian doctor ni dekat facebook cakap pasal labour. Dia kata dia tak pernah share pasal pengalaman labour dia sebab dia malu bila bayangkan yang orang bayangkan especially men how was her condition while deliver the baby. The position etc. As we know or maybe if ada anak dara tak tahu, or new moms tak tahu, the position, the situation, the intensity masa deliver the baby is so dahsyat okay. Memang Maha dahsyat i tell you

On the other side of me yes i agak malu juga bila seorang non muslim pon berfikiran macam tu. As we woman muslim kena jaga kehormatan diri kan? Tapi on more side of me, i rasa i should give the little to people. I mean bila saya cakap little, memang little pon. Which i share my labour journey on my blog post yang sendu ni so that INCASE if ada bakal mommy yang have no clue what to expect masa process bersalin and they came across my blog, sikit sebanyak i dah tolong lighten up their doubt. In non medical way. 

Sebab apa tau, sebab before i jadi mom, i pon banyak baca review/sharing mommy dekat blog. My sister bersalin dekat swasta. So for sure dia punya experience lain. While me bersalin dekat kerajaan. Hospital Kajang somemore. U kalau dengar Hospital Kajang apa u pikir? Gerun kan? Hospital lama, crowded etc. See? My close friends pulak semua nya tak ada anak lagi. Kenapa tak tanya kawan lain other than close friends? I tanya u balik, u nak ke tanya orang yg tak rapat pasal bersalin? :p Tak kan? Mesti u akan usaha cari sendiri sendiri. yes macam tu lah kekdahnya

Tapi saya pon memang suka share benda2 yang saya rasa okay untuk di share. I mean, i treat this blog as my diary. U came across, u read mine. After all, please see the good in everything. Kadang tu kita kena tanya balik diri kita, siapa sebenarnya yang bermasaalah. Orang sekeliling atau diri sendiri. Soalan ni saya selalu tanya dekat diri sendiri. Agak2 dah menyimpang jauh tu, i took step back sebab rasa memang masaalah tu datang dari diri sendiri. Stop blaming people around, See the good in things :)

Disclaimer: This post is never meant for anyone in fact to the doctor herself. Niat dia bagus saya sokong sangat. Cuma kadang2 perspective ni tak boleh pandang in satu sudut je. Dalam posting doc ada cakap, kalau niat nak share pengalaman pon, let the doctors do their part. I mean, in medical term is not the same as experiencing. Hows the process goes. What to expect for people yg tak ada medical background etc. Tu lah dia xoxo